INTIMACY

Without truth, there was no possibility of true intimacy, and so while Gil experienced relationships, he was lonely in them always trying to hide his flaws while trying to be who he thought he was rather than who he was in his desperate need to belong to a weor an us. .

You know your partners background.  You have a connection.  Do you understand their attachment style and where it came from… How well do you really know them?

Do you know your attachment style and understand why it is what it is?

Did you ever learn to trust and are you truly trustworthy in making a lifelong commitment?