IDENTITY

Gil’s identity is always attached to whoever would be in a relationship with, even though these relationships were never truly authentic. He never has the time and space to decide for himself who he wants to be.  If anything, as much as Gil hated his father he idolized him and wanted to be like him. .

Has your identity been affected by your family dynamics?    

Has the process of discovering who you are been sped up or delayed by your parents’ marital status?

Did you feel you had the freedom to explore who you are?